What is Unbecoming? 

Unbecoming is all about letting go of old patterns, beliefs, and habits that no longer serve you, and freeing yourself to become the authentic, confident, and empowered person you were meant to be.


why is it important in midlife?

As we enter midlife, we often find ourselves carrying around a lot of baggage from our past.

This can include negative self-talk, limiting beliefs, and emotional wounds that have never fully healed. These things can hold us back and prevent us from living our best life.


how midlife could look if you don’t let go

If you don’t let go of these old patterns and beliefs, you may find yourself feeling stuck, unfulfilled, and lacking in confidence. You may struggle to make meaningful connections with others and may have difficulty finding joy in life.

It’s important to let go of these things so that you can live a more joyful, fulfilling, and purposeful life.


here are some tips to help you start letting go & unbecoming: 

1. Identify your limiting beliefs: Take some time to reflect on the beliefs that are holding you back. Are they based on past experiences or self-doubt? Once you identify them, you can begin to challenge and reframe them.

2. Practice forgiveness: Forgiving others and yourself can be a powerful way to release negative emotions and let go of the past. Remember that forgiveness is a process, and it’s okay to take your time with it.

3. Release negative self-talk: Negative self-talk can be a major obstacle to letting go and becoming your best self. Practice noticing when you’re engaging in negative self-talk and challenge those thoughts with positive affirmations.

4. Get support: Letting go of old patterns and beliefs can be challenging, so it’s important to get support from others. This can be in the form of a trusted friend, family member, or a professional coach or therapist.

5. Embrace change: Letting go and unbecoming often involves making changes in your life. Embrace the idea of change and look for opportunities to step outside of your comfort zone.

6. Cultivate self-compassion: Letting go and unbecoming can be a difficult process, so it’s important to be gentle and compassionate with yourself. Remember that it’s okay to make mistakes and that growth takes time.


what are the benefits of Letting Go and Unbecoming?

Letting go and unbecoming can lead to a number of benefits, including:

1. Increased self-confidence: When you let go of old patterns and beliefs, you free yourself to become your best self. This can lead to increased confidence and self-esteem.

2. Greater sense of purpose: Letting go of what no longer serves you can help you clarify your values and purpose in life. This can help you find greater meaning and fulfilment.

3. Better relationships: By letting go of negative patterns and beliefs, you may find that you’re better able to connect with others in a more meaningful way.

4. Increased resilience: Letting go of the past and embracing change can help you become more resilient in the face of life’s challenges.

5. Freedom: From the weight of the past, allowing you to fully embrace the present and create a brighter future.


how unbecoming improves your midlife

After letting go and unbecoming, you may find that you have a renewed sense of purpose and energy. You may feel more confident, connected, and fulfilled in your personal and professional life. You may have more meaningful relationships and feel more in control of your emotions and reactions.


work with us! 

At mind:body:life:soul we believe that Unbecoming and letting go is an essential step on the path to living a joyful, fulfilling, and purposeful life.

So important that our Happiness Through The Messy Middle coaching programmes have an entire module, Unbecoming: Letting Go, to help you identify and release old patterns and beliefs that are holding you back, so that you can become the authentic, empowered person you were meant to be.

With the right tools, support, and mindset, you can let go of the past and embrace a brighter, more vibrant future. Join us on this journey of growth and transformation, and unlock the key to living your best life. 

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